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September 3, 2024It’s very easy to look at someone else’s life and form an opinion.
We see what someone has done, how they dress, how they speak, the choices they’ve made, the mistakes they’ve made, or the way they treat other people, and we can quickly decide what kind of person they are.
Sometimes we may even be right about the fact that something someone has done is wrong.
But Jesus gives us a serious warning about judging other people. He doesn’t tell us to stop recognising right and wrong. Instead, He warns us about hypocrisy, pride, condemnation, and judging others while ignoring what is happening in our own hearts.
The Bible also teaches us to use discernment. We’re told to recognise sin, test what we are taught, and make righteous judgments rather than judging people by appearances.
So what does the Bible actually mean when it tells us not to judge others?
Quick Answer: What Does the Bible Say About Judging Others?
The Bible tells us not to judge others hypocritically, harshly, or as though we are the final authority over their lives.
Jesus said:
“Judge not, that ye be not judged.” — Matthew 7:1
But this doesn’t mean Christians are never allowed to recognise sin, exercise discernment, or lovingly correct someone.
Jesus also said:
“Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.” — John 7:24
The difference is important.
We aren’t called to blindly approve everything people do. We’re called to examine ourselves first, judge fairly rather than by appearances, and leave ultimate judgment to God.
Jesus Warned Us About Hypocritical Judgment
When Jesus said, “Judge not,” He immediately explained what He meant.
Matthew 7:1–5
“Judge not, that ye be not judged.
For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.”
Jesus gives us a picture that’s almost impossible to miss.
Someone has a tiny speck in their eye, but we’re walking around with a huge beam in our own.
The problem isn’t that the other person’s speck doesn’t exist.
The problem is that we’re so focused on their problem that we’ve ignored our own.
That’s hypocrisy.
Jesus isn’t telling us to pretend sin doesn’t exist. He’s telling us to examine ourselves first.
“Judge Not” Doesn’t Mean “Call Everything Good”
This is where the subject can become confusing.
Some people use “judge not” to mean that Christians should never say that anything is sinful or wrong.
But that isn’t what the whole Bible teaches.
Jesus Himself told His followers to make righteous judgments.
John 7:24
“Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.”
There’s a difference between discernment and condemnation.
Discernment asks:
“What does God say about this?”
Condemnation says:
“I am better than you, and I have the right to decide your ultimate worth or destiny.”
We need to be able to recognise what Scripture calls sinful while remaining humble about our own need for God’s grace.
We Don’t Know Everything About Someone’s Story
One reason judging others can be so dangerous is that we usually don’t know the whole story.
We see one moment.
God sees everything.
We may see someone’s reaction but not what happened beforehand, we may see their mistake but not the years of circumstances that contributed to their struggles.
We may see their outward behaviour but have no idea what is happening in their heart.
That’s why judging someone based purely on appearances can be so unfair.
Jesus specifically warned against this kind of judgment when He said to judge “righteous judgment.”
God Looks at the Heart
God sees something we cannot fully see.
1 Samuel 16:7
“But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.”
We can make assumptions about people based on what we see.
God knows the heart.
That should make us humble.
It should also make us careful about declaring that we know someone’s motives when we don’t.
Don’t Judge Someone Because They Are Different From You
Not every difference between Christians is a matter of sin.
Paul addressed this in Romans 14 when Christians were disagreeing about matters of conscience, including food and the observance of particular days.
Romans 14:10–13
“But why dost thou judge thy brother? or why dost thou set at nought thy brother? for we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ.
For it is written, As I live, saith the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God.
So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.
Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother’s way.”
This is an important reminder.
Sometimes we’re tempted to turn our personal preferences into biblical commandments.
We need to be careful about that.
There are clear teachings in Scripture that Christians should take seriously. But there are also matters where sincere believers may have different convictions.
We shouldn’t condemn someone simply because they don’t make every decision exactly the way we would.
God Is the Final Judge
One of the reasons we need to be careful about judging others is that God is the ultimate Judge.
James 4:11–12
“Speak not evil one of another, brethren. He that speaketh evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law: but if thou judge the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a judge.
There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy: who art thou that judgest another?”
There is a humility in remembering that every one of us will answer to God.
We aren’t God, we don’t know everything and we don’t see everything.
And we don’t have the authority to decide someone’s eternal destiny.
That belongs to Him.
We Should Examine Ourselves First
Before we become obsessed with what’s wrong with everyone else, Scripture calls us to look at ourselves.
Paul puts it this way:
Galatians 6:3–5
“For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself.
But let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another.
For every man shall bear his own burden.”
Self-examination isn’t about becoming consumed with ourselves.
It’s about humility.
Instead of constantly comparing ourselves with other people, we should ask:
Am I walking faithfully with God?
Is there sin in my own life that I need to deal with?
Am I treating people with love?
Am I allowing God’s Word to correct me?
Those are much better questions than constantly looking for reasons someone else is failing.
Correcting Someone Isn’t the Same as Condemning Them
There are situations where Christians are called to help someone who is caught in sin.
But look at the way Scripture says this should be done.
Galatians 6:1
“Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.”
Notice the language.
Restore.
Meekness.
Considering thyself.
The goal isn’t to humiliate someone.
It’s restoration.
If a Christian is caught in sin, the biblical response isn’t, “Look how terrible you are.”
It’s, “How can I help you come back to what is right?”
And the person doing the correction is warned to remember their own weakness.
Speak the Truth in Love
Sometimes loving someone means telling them the truth.
But truth should never become an excuse for cruelty.
Ephesians 4:15
“But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ.”
There is a huge difference between confronting someone because you genuinely care about their spiritual wellbeing and attacking someone because their behaviour annoys you.
Before you correct someone, it is worth asking yourself:
Am I doing this because I love them, or because I want to feel superior?
That question can reveal a lot about our own hearts.
Don’t Assume You Know Someone’s Motives
We can see what another person does.
We cannot always see why they did it.
That’s an important distinction.
Someone may make a decision you don’t understand, and it’s tempting to immediately decide:
“They’re selfish.”
“They don’t care.”
“They’re doing that to hurt me.”
“They’re just a bad person.”
But we don’t always know someone’s motives.
There are certainly times when someone’s repeated actions give us good reason to recognise a pattern of harmful behaviour. Wisdom and boundaries matter.
But we should still be careful about claiming to know what is happening inside another person’s heart when God alone sees it completely.
Forgiveness and Judging Others
Judging others can also become connected with unforgiveness.
Someone hurts us, and we replay what happened over and over.
We decide what kind of person they are.
We keep a mental record of everything they’ve done.
Eventually, their mistake becomes their entire identity in our minds.
But Jesus calls us to forgive.
Luke 6:36–37
“Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.
Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven.”
Forgiveness doesn’t mean saying that what happened was acceptable.
It doesn’t mean removing healthy boundaries.
It doesn’t mean trusting someone who has repeatedly shown that they aren’t trustworthy.
And it doesn’t mean that serious wrongdoing shouldn’t have consequences or accountability.
Forgiveness means releasing personal vengeance to God and refusing to let hatred take over your heart.
Don’t Judge People by Their Past
Sometimes we find it difficult to believe that people can really change.
We remember who they used to be, we remember what they did and we think, “That’s just who they are.”
But the gospel is built around the reality that God changes people.
Paul himself had a past that included persecuting Christians.
Yet God transformed his life and used him to proclaim the gospel.
1 Corinthians 6:9–11
“Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.”
Notice those words:
“And such were some of you.”
Their past was not their final identity.
God had changed them.
We should never use someone’s past to deny the possibility of God’s work in their present.
There Is a Difference Between Discernment and Judgment
Christians need discernment.
We’re told to test spiritual teaching.
We’re told to recognise false prophets, to turn away from sin and told to be wise about the people and influences we allow into our lives.
So “don’t judge” doesn’t mean “don’t think.”
It doesn’t mean “believe everything.”
It doesn’t mean “ignore dangerous behaviour.”
And it doesn’t mean that Christians must stay in unhealthy or unsafe situations.
Wisdom sometimes means recognising that someone is behaving in a harmful way and establishing appropriate boundaries.
The key question is how we respond.
Can we recognise something is wrong without becoming hateful?
Respond with truth without becoming self-righteous?
Can we set boundaries without wishing harm on someone?
Can we correct someone while remembering that we also need God’s grace?
That’s the kind of humility Scripture calls us toward.
We Will All Stand Before God
At the end of the day, every one of us has something in common.
We will all answer to God.
Romans 14:10–12
“But why dost thou judge thy brother? or why dost thou set at nought thy brother? for we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ.
For it is written, As I live, saith the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God.
So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.”
That should change the way we look at other people.
Instead of being obsessed with whether everyone else is doing everything right, we should be concerned about our own walk with God.
There is plenty of work God can do in our own hearts.
Bible Verses About Judging Others
Matthew 7:1–5 — Don’t Judge Hypocritically
“Judge not, that ye be not judged.
For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.”
John 7:24 — Judge Righteously
“Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.”
Luke 6:37 — Don’t Condemn Others
“Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven.”
Romans 2:1 — Don’t Condemn Others While Doing the Same Things
“Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things.”
Romans 14:10 — God Is the Judge
“But why dost thou judge thy brother? or why dost thou set at nought thy brother? for we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ.”
James 4:11–12 — One Lawgiver and Judge
“Speak not evil one of another, brethren. He that speaketh evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law: but if thou judge the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a judge.
There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy: who art thou that judgest another?”
Galatians 6:1 — Restore With Gentleness
“Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.”
Ephesians 4:15 — Speak the Truth in Love
“But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ.”
1 Samuel 16:7 — God Looks at the Heart
“But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.”
Final Thoughts About Judging Others
Jesus’ words, “Judge not,” are easy to quote and easy to misunderstand.
He wasn’t telling us to stop caring about truth.
He wasn’t telling us that sin doesn’t matter.
And He wasn’t telling us to ignore harmful behaviour or abandon discernment.
He was warning us about the kind of judgment that comes from pride, hypocrisy, condemnation, and a desire to elevate ourselves above someone else.
Before you point out someone else’s speck, look at your own heart.
Don’t assume you know someone’s motives, remember that God sees what you cannot.
Before you condemn someone’s past, remember what God’s grace has done in your own life.
And when someone genuinely needs correction, don’t approach them with pride. Scripture tells us to restore people with gentleness.
We can stand for truth without becoming self-righteous.
Can recognise sin without hating the sinner.
We can establish boundaries without seeking revenge.
And we can leave the final judgment where it belongs—with God.
“Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.” — John 7:24
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