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August 6, 2024
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August 6, 2024Beauty is something almost everyone thinks about at some point. We live in a world that constantly tells us what we should look like, what we should wear, how young we should appear and what makes someone attractive.
And it can be exhausting.
You can spend so much time comparing yourself with other people that you forget something incredibly important: your value was never meant to come from your appearance.
The Bible has a much deeper understanding of beauty. It doesn’t tell us that physical beauty is bad, and it doesn’t tell us that we shouldn’t take care of ourselves. Instead, Scripture reminds us that outward appearance is only one small part of who we are, while the character of our hearts has lasting value.
Quick Answer
The Bible does not say that physical beauty is wrong. Scripture actually describes several people as physically beautiful.
However, the Bible repeatedly warns us not to make outward appearance the foundation of our worth. Physical beauty is temporary, but godly character has lasting value.
God looks at the heart, and He values qualities such as faith, humility, kindness, wisdom, love and holiness.
You can take care of your appearance without making your appearance your identity.
True biblical beauty isn’t about becoming the most attractive person in the room. It is about becoming a person whose life reflects the character of Christ.
The Bible Does Not Say Beauty Is Wrong
Sometimes Christian discussions about beauty can go too far in the other direction.
The Bible doesn’t teach that looking attractive is sinful.
There are people in Scripture who are specifically described as beautiful.
For example, Sarah, Rebekah, Rachel, Esther and David are all described in ways that acknowledge physical appearance.
So the issue isn’t whether someone is physically attractive.
The issue is what place appearance has in our hearts.
There is nothing wrong with taking care of yourself, dressing nicely, looking presentable or enjoying the way you look.
The danger comes when appearance becomes the source of your identity, confidence or worth.
God Looks at the Heart
One of the clearest verses about beauty is found when Samuel was looking for the person God had chosen to become king.
Samuel initially looked at outward appearance, but God reminded him that He sees something deeper.
1 Samuel 16:7
“But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.”
People naturally notice appearance.
God looks at the heart.
That doesn’t mean appearance is completely irrelevant. It means it isn’t the thing God considers most important.
Someone can be incredibly attractive and have a cruel heart.
Someone else may not fit society’s definition of beauty at all and yet have a life marked by love, wisdom, humility and faithfulness.
God sees what other people cannot.
You Are Fearfully and Wonderfully Made
The Bible gives us another reason not to despise the way God created us.
Psalm 139:13–14
“For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother’s womb.
I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.”
Your body isn’t an accident.
God created you.
Psalm 139 is not saying that every person will look the same or that everyone will fit some particular standard of physical beauty.
It is reminding us that God is intimately involved in His creation and that we have reason to recognise His work in us.
You don’t have to look like somebody else to have value.
You Were Created in God’s Image
Your deepest worth doesn’t come from your face, body, hair, clothes or physical appearance.
It comes from God.
Genesis 1:27
“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.”
Every human being has dignity because every human being is created in the image of God.
That includes people who society considers beautiful and people society overlooks.
It includes young people and old people.
It includes people with disabilities, scars, wrinkles, different body shapes and different physical features.
Your worth is not something society gets to decide.
Beauty Fades
One of the realities Scripture repeatedly brings us back to is that physical beauty doesn’t last forever.
Our bodies change.
We age.
Our appearance changes.
The standards of beauty around us change too.
What is considered beautiful today may not be considered beautiful a few decades from now.
Proverbs puts it very plainly.
Proverbs 31:30
“Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.”
This isn’t saying that beauty has absolutely no value.
It is saying that beauty is temporary and cannot be the foundation of a person’s life.
Character lasts much longer than appearance.
What Is True Beauty?
Peter gives Christians a beautiful picture of what God considers valuable.
1 Peter 3:3–4
“Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.”
Peter isn’t saying women are forbidden from doing their hair, wearing jewellery or caring about their clothing.
The point is that outward appearance should not be the primary source of beauty.
There is something more valuable that cannot be bought in a shop or created with makeup.
The character of the heart.
Inner Beauty Matters to God
A beautiful heart doesn’t mean being passive, weak or never speaking up.
Biblical character includes strength, wisdom, courage, self-control, compassion and humility.
Look at the women Scripture honours.
Ruth showed loyalty.
Esther showed courage.
Deborah showed leadership.
Hannah showed faith through deep sorrow.
Mary showed humble obedience.
The Proverbs 31 woman is described as strong, hardworking, wise and generous.
These women weren’t valuable because they all looked a particular way.
Their lives demonstrated character.
Beauty and Holiness
There is also a kind of beauty that comes from becoming more like Christ.
As God changes us, qualities that reflect His character should become increasingly visible.
Colossians 3:12
“Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering.”
Think about how different that is from the world’s usual definition of beauty.
The world might tell you that beauty means having the right body, clothes, hair or face.
God points us toward mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
Those qualities become more beautiful as we grow older rather than less.
Kindness Is Beautiful
Have you ever met someone who wasn’t necessarily the most physically attractive person in the room, but there was something about them that made you want to be around them?
Their kindness made them beautiful.
Their warmth made them beautiful.
The way they treated people made them beautiful.
That kind of beauty has nothing to do with a perfect face.
Proverbs 31:26
“She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.”
A person’s words reveal something about their heart.
Kindness can make a person beautiful in a way that physical appearance never could.
Beauty and Confidence
It can be difficult to feel confident when you don’t like the way you look.
Maybe you compare yourself with other women, maybe you don’t look like the people you see on social media, maybe you’ve gained or lost weight.
Perhaps you’re getting older and noticing changes you don’t like.
Maybe you have scars or physical features that make you feel self-conscious or maybe someone has criticised your appearance and you’ve carried those words with you for years.
God’s Word gives you something deeper to build your confidence on.
Ephesians 2:10
“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.”
You are God’s workmanship.
Your life has value beyond what you see when you look in a mirror.
Don’t Compare Yourself With Other People
Comparison can completely change the way you see yourself.
You can be perfectly content until you look at someone else and suddenly decide that you’re not attractive enough, successful enough, thin enough, young enough or interesting enough.
Social media can make this even worse because we are constantly seeing carefully selected images of other people’s lives and appearances.
But you were never called to become another person.
Galatians 6:4
“But let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another.”
God has given you your own life to live.
You don’t need to compete with everyone around you.
Beauty Is Not the Same as Perfection
There is no such thing as a person who perfectly meets every standard of beauty.
Even the people we consider incredibly beautiful have things about themselves they don’t like.
Someone can have beautiful skin and dislike their body, someone can have a beautiful body and dislike their face or someone can be considered attractive by everyone around them and still feel deeply insecure.
External beauty cannot heal internal insecurity.
That’s why changing your appearance over and over again doesn’t necessarily solve the deeper problem.
If your worth depends on looking perfect, you will always be afraid of losing your beauty.
But if your identity is rooted in God, you have something much more stable.
It Is Okay to Take Care of Yourself
Sometimes Christians hear messages about inner beauty and conclude that caring about their appearance must be vain.
It doesn’t have to be.
You can enjoy fashion, wear makeup, style your hair, exercise, take care of your skin, dress beautifully and enjoy looking nice.
None of those things automatically become sinful.
The question is whether those things have become your identity or are controlling your heart.
There is a difference between caring for your appearance and believing your appearance determines your worth.
Your Body Is Not Your Enemy
It’s easy to become frustrated with our bodies.
Maybe your body doesn’t look the way you want it to, maybe you’ve experienced illness or physical changes, maybe you don’t fit the clothes you used to wear or maybe you compare yourself with people who seem to have a completely different body type.
Try not to turn that frustration into hatred of yourself.
Your body is part of God’s creation.
1 Corinthians 6:19–20
“What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.”
Our bodies should be treated with care and honour.
That doesn’t mean we need to become obsessed with them.
It means we recognise that our bodies matter to God.
Beauty and Aging
Aging can be difficult in a culture that places enormous value on youth.
We are constantly shown products promising to make us look younger.
But Scripture gives us a different perspective.
Growing older isn’t something to be ashamed of.
Proverbs 16:31
“The hoary head is a crown of glory, if it be found in the way of righteousness.”
There is honour in growing older with wisdom and faithfulness.
Wrinkles aren’t evidence that you have failed.
Grey hair isn’t something that makes you less valuable.
Your worth doesn’t decrease because you are getting older.
In fact, a life lived faithfully can become increasingly beautiful with age.
What About Beauty in Men?
Biblical teaching about beauty isn’t only for women.
Men can struggle with appearance too.
There is pressure to look muscular, strong, young, successful and confident.
A man can become just as consumed with his appearance as a woman can.
The biblical principle remains the same.
Physical appearance isn’t the foundation of your worth.
God looks at the heart.
1 Samuel 16:7
“Man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.”
Godly character matters more than looking impressive.
Beauty and Marriage
Physical attraction can be part of a healthy romantic relationship.
The Bible doesn’t pretend otherwise.
The Song of Solomon contains beautiful descriptions of attraction between a husband and wife.
Song of Solomon 4:7
“Thou art all fair, my love; there is no spot in thee.”
Within marriage, attraction and physical affection can be good gifts from God.
But a healthy marriage cannot survive on physical attraction alone.
Bodies change.
Age changes people.
Illness can change appearance.
Pregnancy can change a woman’s body.
Life changes everyone.
A lasting marriage needs love, faithfulness, kindness, patience and commitment.
What If Someone Has Made You Feel Ugly?
Sometimes insecurity doesn’t begin with us.
Someone may have called you ugly.
A parent may have criticised your appearance.
A partner may have compared you with someone else.
A bully may have made cruel comments about your body.
Someone you trusted may have made you feel undesirable.
Words like that can stay with us for years.
But another person’s cruelty does not define God’s view of you.
Their opinion is not the final authority over your worth.
Psalm 139:17–18
“How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them!
If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand…”
God knows you completely.
He sees what other people don’t see.
Don’t Let Beauty Become an Idol
Beauty itself isn’t sinful, but it can become an idol.
If you spend most of your time thinking about your appearance, constantly checking how you look, comparing yourself with others or believing that being attractive is the key to being loved, it’s worth stopping and asking God to examine your heart.
Matthew 6:21
“For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.”
Anything can take too much space in our hearts, including our appearance.
God should remain more important than how we look.
Beauty and Modesty
The Bible also speaks about modesty and the way Christians present themselves.
1 Timothy 2:9–10
“In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.”
The emphasis is not that Christians must look unattractive.
The emphasis is that outward appearance should not become the focus of godliness.
Our lives should demonstrate something deeper than what we’re wearing.
True Beauty Comes From a Life That Reflects Christ
Imagine meeting someone who is kind when nobody is watching.
Someone who forgives, who doesn’t need to be the centre of attention, who tells the truth, who helps people who cannot give them anything in return, who is humble but strong and someone who remains faithful when life becomes difficult.
That is beautiful.
And it doesn’t disappear with age.
Galatians 5:22–23
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.”
The Holy Spirit produces qualities in our lives that reflect the character of Christ.
That is the kind of beauty we should pursue.
What Does the Bible Say About Beauty?
Here are some important Bible verses about beauty, appearance, identity and godly character.
1 Samuel 16:7
“For man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.”
God looks beyond outward appearance.
Psalm 27:4
“One thing have I desired of the Lord, that will I seek after; that I may dwell in the house of the Lord… to behold the beauty of the Lord…”
The Bible also speaks of God’s own beauty and glory.
Psalm 139:14
“I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made…”
God is the Creator of our bodies and lives.
Proverbs 31:30
“Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.”
Physical beauty is temporary, while reverence for God has lasting value.
Proverbs 16:31
“The hoary head is a crown of glory, if it be found in the way of righteousness.”
Growing older can be accompanied by wisdom and honour.
Song of Solomon 4:7
“Thou art all fair, my love; there is no spot in thee.”
The Song of Solomon celebrates beauty and attraction within romantic love.
1 Peter 3:3–4
“But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible…”
God values inward character.
1 Timothy 2:9–10
“Women adorn themselves in modest apparel… But… with good works.”
Godly character should be more important than outward display.
Galatians 5:22–23
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance…”
The character produced by the Spirit is beautiful in God’s sight.
Ephesians 2:10
“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works…”
Our identity and purpose come from God.
How Can You Stop Letting Your Appearance Define You?
Start by paying attention to the way you speak to yourself.
Would you speak to a friend the way you sometimes speak to yourself?
Ask yourself would you tell someone you love that they’re worthless because they gained weight?
Would you tell your daughter she’s less valuable because she doesn’t look like someone on social media?
Or would you tell your friend that getting older makes her less worthy of love?
Probably not.
So don’t make yourself live under a standard you wouldn’t impose on someone you love.
Thank God for creating you.
Take care of your body without worshipping it.
Dress in a way that makes you feel comfortable and confident without making appearance your identity.
Stop comparing yourself with people you don’t actually know.
And spend more time developing the parts of yourself that will still matter when physical beauty changes.
Grow in wisdom, kindness, patience, faith and love.
Those things become more beautiful with time.
What If You Don’t Feel Beautiful?
Maybe you’re reading this because you genuinely don’t like the way you look.
You may look in the mirror and only see what you wish you could change.
If that’s you, I’m not going to tell you that you have to suddenly look in the mirror and convince yourself you’re the most beautiful person in the world.
Instead, start somewhere deeper.
Remember that your value was never based on winning a beauty contest.
You were created by God, you bear His image and you have a life that matters.
And if you belong to Christ, your identity is rooted in Him.
2 Corinthians 5:17
“Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature…”
Your appearance is one part of your life.
It is not the whole of you.
Final Encouragement
The world will keep changing its definition of beauty.
One year it will be one body type.
Another year it will be another.
One decade it will be a certain hairstyle.
Another decade it will be something completely different.
If you build your worth on those standards, you’ll spend your life trying to keep up with something that never stays still.
God offers you something deeper.
He sees your heart, your character, your struggles, your weaknesses, your hopes and the things you don’t like about yourself.
And He reminds us that what matters most isn’t whether we meet the world’s definition of beauty.
It’s whether our lives are becoming more like Christ.
1 Peter 3:4
“But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible…”
Take care of yourself.
Enjoy the way God created you.
Look after your body.
Wear the clothes you like.
Do your hair.
Put on your makeup if you enjoy it.
There is nothing wrong with any of that.
Just don’t let your appearance become your identity.
Physical beauty changes.
But a heart that loves God, treats people with kindness, walks in humility and reflects the character of Christ can become more beautiful with every passing year.
That is a beauty worth pursuing.
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